Dating a rebounder
I can’t say that I’m too familiar with the technicalities of actual sports, but that certainly doesn’t mean I can’t apply some of those rules to the life of a collegiette.I mean, didn’t we all classify our high school hook-ups using the “bases” method?
To rebound properly, you have to maintain good bounce control while also focusing on jump height.The Scientist This guy has been on more dates that he can count, and has the art of flirting / courting down to a science. This is the guy that you turned down at the bar when he oh-so-sweetly invited you back to his place – undoubtedly shared by 3 other beer-guzzling prince charmings – so he took the less desirable rout of offering up a date in hopes that maybe that would lead to the sexual activity his life is clearly lacking. I have a system and it is a well-oiled machine of distrust – healthy right?He will impress you with his charisma, but about halfway through the date, you’re going to notice that his lines sound a bit familiar. He was probably either really popular and successful with the ladies in high school, or he spent far too much time analyzing rom coms and reading dating forums. Do not fall victim to the copious amounts of alcohol he will offer you or the “snuggling” he wants back at his place. The Newb / Rebounder Fairly self-explanatory, but this guy will tell you about his last relationship – in varying degrees of detail – and will most likely continue to do so if you keep talking post date, or he will simply tell you that he is not ready. Attempt to discover the duration of his last relationship / estimated date of termination prior to the date. Dating doesn’t always have to be a process of elimination for potential mates, it’s also a really great way to meet people. I’m curious about y’all’s dating experiences and the guys you have met or are hoping to meet, so don’t hesitate to comment below!But sure enough, Her Campus has a little something to say about being “that girl” (or guy? Filling a Gap While being a rebound doesn’t always have to be a bad thing, what isbad is the tendency to not even realize that you are one.It’s easy to get swept up in whatever you have going on with a guy, but dangerous when there’s a relationship in his very recent past.